Author Topic: If Love Hurts. Is it Still Love?  (Read 21590 times)

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Offline abitex577

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We seems to promote that love must hurt, if it hurts would it still be love? What would we say of enermy?
It is loved ones that hurt you more than enemies, the fact is our friends and loved one often times misunderstand us.
That becomes a challenge because personally I don’t think love is meant to hurt.
Ok then, carry out a poll of all who have been in and out of love whether there was anyone who was loved and never got hurt!!!

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Generally happening doesn't make it normal. I hate it and belief in having perfect love, I'm positive thinker and it works for me.

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Generally happening doesn't make it normal. I hate it and belief in having perfect love, I'm positive thinker and it works for me.
Generally happening is an assumption, if the poll says everyone in love has been hurt at one point in time, then it is a fact.

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Well that is poll, not Webm, I can't just accept what I don't like because poll has said so.
We have gone beyond that where we just accept whatever that everybody agrees on.
If world is being run like this then new inventions and grounds that we enjoy today wouldn't have existed.

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Well that is poll, not Webm, I can't just accept what I don't like because poll has said so.
We have gone beyond that where we just accept whatever that everybody agrees on.
If world is being run like this then new inventions and grounds that we enjoy today wouldn't have existed.
This is not something within your control? There are certain things one cant change but learn to leave with and this is one of such! I guess you are not planning to change the gender of your child if you dont like either genders?

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Well, you are what you think, I don't belief  something controlling my desire, direction or outcome out of my permission. I change anything that isn't working or behave as expected.

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Well, you are what you think, I don't belief  something controlling my desire, direction or outcome out of my permission. I change anything that isn't working or behave as expected.
I guess you have never been sick from your birth cos you have a control of it cos no body desires to be sick???

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That is exactly my points i can't remember when I sick last at least I'm sure of 20 years back I haven't sick.

This is to prove to you that the more we think positively and take charge of situation the better our lives will become.

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That is exactly my points i can't remember when I sick last at least I'm sure of 20 years back I haven't sick.

This is to prove to you that the more we think positively and take charge of situation the better our lives will become.



But you have been sick before even if you dont remember! You see my point?

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May be it came I didn't know , it still foster my point about being positive all the time by all means.

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Good to be positive but also know the limits and be factual!!!

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Love hurts isn't and will never be a pleasant experience. It could hurt but that doesn't curb it of being Love. Love endure beyond the pains of hurt.

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You are right Ogboso!!!

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When we drive a car and get an accident that doesn't make the car a less car, it just that there is/are mistakes some where that lead to undesirable situation. Love still love even if it hurts sometimes, but one has to be sure isn't infatuation, as many people mistaken infatuation to be love.

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One does not love a place the less for having suffered in it unless it has all been suffering, nothing but suffering.
Love is like the truth, sometimes it prevails, sometimes it hurts.
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