Author Topic: Is a Lady above 30 too old? (Read 2717 times)

Dqueen · « **on:** »

Hi all,
I was listening to an African internet radio show. They have a weekly programme where they try to connect singles. A lady, I think she is based in the UK (or was it USA?) called and introduced herself, the kind of men she would date and so on. She also revealed that she had such a good job and earned enough to even look after her partner should need be. The the moderator started asking her questions. You know those kind of questions that most of us would not feel comfortable disclosing on a public forum e.g. when is the last time you were physically intimate with someone and why.

Well, the lady seemed to have some cool things to say as men suddenly started calling from all over the world. Then it came to the most critical part of the question and answer session, the 'how old are you bit'. She revealed that she is well above 30. Suddenly all the guys seemed to be dropping the call except one who 'blatantly' claimed: 'but ma'am thirty is already too old'. I personally thought that was way too mean, but was too meek to call up and challenge the guy on behalf of the lady.

Any, what do you folks think? What is the right age for marriage? Gentlemen, would you marry a woman who is above 30 possibly going 40, has never been married, got no kids and seemed to have been a good girl all her life? Ladies would you marry a 40year old male virgin or would suspicion stop you from taking that life changing step?

Cokoye · « **on:** »

Perfect · « **Reply #1 on:** »

I don't think there is right age until the lady/women can't get pregnant anymore. Focus should be in how mentally mature is the person.
Would I marry a lady above 30 years yes, going to 40 years, considering my age no.
Any lady no matter the age can get married, in my understanding no man wants a lady/woman that will be challenging, opinionated or disrespectful of him, due to age, financial background, experience or exposure. This is what makes ladies with higher age unattractive especially for those of who don't want to become President of Africa union yet.

Cokoye · « **Reply #1 on:** »

loveymiller · « **Reply #2 on:** »

i really do not think so.... 30 is not that much old.

Cokoye · « **Reply #2 on:** »

Perfect · « **Reply #3 on:** »

Lovey, there is question below in the post:

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...Ladies would you marry a 40year old male virgin or would suspicion stop you from taking that life changing step?

What is your take on this?

loveymiller · « **Reply #4 on:** »

I will not.. 40 years is quite too old!!

Cokoye · « **Reply #4 on:** »

Perfect · « **Reply #5 on:** »

Dqeen made mention of him being a virgin, how about that, would that change your perception knowing fully well that you're the only women he gets to know?

loveymiller · « **Reply #6 on:** »

I do not know but i will not marry a person who is in 40's !!

Dqueen · « **Reply #7 on:** »

lool Miller, 40 isn't too far off. Anyway, I think age is just a number...

loveymiller · « **Reply #8 on:** »

but i do not believe in numbers

Perfect · « **Reply #9 on:** »

Your belief doesn't necessary affects it's existence, your opinion is noted though.

@topic
I don't think there is really a straight or universal answer to age. May be we should be asking what is minimum or maximum age we can tolerate or accept as a guy or a lady as our partner?

loveymiller · « **Reply #10 on:** »

yep.. right

chadpatrick · « **Reply #11 on:** »

Is a Lady above 30 too old?I don't believe it.I mean Is a Lady above 45 she is old.

Cokoye · « **Reply #11 on:** »

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