Author Topic: Whose responsibility is it to tell my parents that my fiance is from a seperated (Read 2147 times)

Saucy Dolph · « **on:** »

Hello people. Happy sunday. Thank God for making us to see this day. I have something that has been bothering me. My fiance's parents have been seperated for 10years and my parents don't know about it. Should i or my fiance or my fiance's parents be the one to tell them. And am also scared cos they might nt agree to d relationship again if they know he is from such home. Please matured advice.

Cokoye · « **on:** »

Perfect · « **Reply #1 on:** »

I think is always a good practice to stand in the truth by revealing everything about the two of you. They may have advice concerning the relationship by seeing what you are not seeing.
In this case I think you should tell your parent because sooner of latter they will find out, so why not let them know about it. I don't think is something that you should be afraid about loosing the relationship as that is unlikely to deter you guys love.

Cokoye · « **Reply #1 on:** »

Kodo · « **Reply #2 on:** »

Why I agree that is good our parent know, but let your parent ask about it first, depends on who they ask then the person should tell them about it then, but if not, why fix what is broken?
In other word let them know if they inquire, besides this shouldn't be a major issue to you and your fiance.

Cokoye · « **Reply #2 on:** »

Mature · « **Reply #3 on:** »

In a relationship like this that has gotten to this stage, only say that which is important and really desired, telling your parent, or whether there was divorced or not is inconsequential, what matters is what both of you think about yourself and where the union is going.

martina · « **Reply #4 on:** »

I agree with some views here, tell the truth when asked about the family, but isn't necessary to start telling history when not needed, but rather focus on your future.

Cokoye · « **Reply #4 on:** »

Perfect · « **Reply #5 on:** »

Most of the opinions seem to be point at a direction, which means tell your parent when is necessary it could come from anybody.

Cokoye · « **Reply #5 on:** »

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