Are u married or just preparing for marriage? Pls
read dis: WHAT A MOTHER TOLD HER SON A DAY
BEFORE HIS WEDDING Mummy's boy, you are now
a man. Tomorrow you will have a new mother, a
new cook and a new person to share all your
secrets with. It will no longer be me but her. Love
your new mum even more than you love me.
Before you walk into her arms forever, let me give
you some words to guide you.

There was a day I
was arguing with your father. We were screaming,
Tempers were high. I was angry and He was
angry. Then I called him an idiot! He was shocked,
He looked at me asking how dare I call him that.
Immediately I started calling him idiot, fool,
stupid, crazy; I called him all sort of name. Guess
what he did? He didn't raise his hands to hit me.
He just walked away, banging the door as he went
out. My Son, If your father had hit me and
destroyed my eyes, how will you feel sitting here
with me today? How will you regard him as your
father? Would you have been proud of him or
would you be blaming me for calling him names?
Never hit your wife!

No matter the provocation just
walk away and things will be normal. Whenever
she offends you, think of this story I just told you,
it could have been your mum! After he left, I was
filled with guilt. We slept on same bed that night
and I went to him the next day. I pleaded with
him, I did all I could to show am sorry and he
forgave me. That day I cooked his favourite food,
yes you know he loves Pounded yam & Vegetable
soup right? After that day, I never called him
names, my respect for him was ten times
stronger.

There is something very important you
must always do, my son listen very carefully,
defend your wife. When she is under pressure,
stand by her. If your friends hates her, it is your
duty to make them see her as a Queen. Your
Uncle, I mean Uncle Yusuf, never liked me. But Ur
father was always supportive until his perception
changed. There was a day your Father was going
to host the owner of his company and friends.
They were three of them. That day I was in the
kitchen cooking for them and your father went to
buy drinks. When the table was set and food was
served. Everyone started eating. Then I
remembered I did not add salt in the food. I was
embarrassed. Your father tasted the food and
looked at me. He immediately turned to the
guests.

He told them that he instructed his wife
last month not to add salt whenever she is
cooking because of some problem with his body.
He said it in a funny way and everyone laughed!
The guests understood and he asked me to bring
salt and everyone added according to their taste.
He managed to eat the food without salt. After the
guest left, he went on his knees and asked God to
forgive him for lying. Your wife is like a baby,
sometimes she don't know what to say or do.
Stand up and speak for her! Now let me talk to
you about Sex. You see Sex is a wonderful thing.
Do not be surprised if your wife enjoy and need
Sex more than you do.

There were days, I needed
Sex more than your father and there were days he
needed it more than me but the important thing is
to always try to satisfy the other when they need
you. Don't always think of your self. There was a
time things were hard and I needed to do two jobs
to support your father. One night I was so tired.
When I got to bed he was in the mood. He try to
make love to me and I didn't refuse him. I was
tired but I felt I needed to be there when he needs
me. When he tried undressing me, he saw my
look and he stopped. He asked what was wrong
and I said nothing. But he understand me better.
He stopped and then started telling me stories
until I fell asleep. My son, Sex is best enjoyed
when the two parties are physically and mentally
ready for it. Sometimes, read your wife and
understand her. Make it a habit to go anywhere
with your wife.

Beside your job, move around with
her. If anyone invite you to his house and told you
not to come with your wife then be very careful.
Use wisdom. I know you love mummy... I know you
will tell me all your problems. But now things will
be different. Let your wife be the first to know
before me. Let her be the first to see before me.
When you have problems with her don't run to me
immediately. Wait for a day to pass and then talk
to her about it. Pray about it. Report her to
nobody but talk issues out within yourself. Finally,
don't forget to come and visit me with your wife
every month! I know you will have a happy home.
You will always be mummy's boy. God will bless
Ur home. Pls don't forget God, pray & seek His
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Meaningful advice before marriage.