hi, i am lovey, one of my friend is going through pain of love. he is suffering now, her girlfriend cheated on him thrice times. suggest something for him. why this things are happened in life? what is love ? what is cheating? what is hurting?? help me to find out all these

The more mature a girl is, the better; many young girls don't really know what they want that is why they can easily fall for any guy that comes around that gives them attention.

He should know what those guys he caught them with have in common, and try if he could adjust. E.g. neatness, expressive, gift given, popular, richer the list is endless, if isn't what he can adjust he should leave the girl alone and move on, and never bother about her.(mind you she will one day wants to come back [yes girls do this a lot] he should never mind her as she isn't a girl for him). I understand that leaving her isn't easy thing but among the top list that will end this heart break.

Other questions you asked:

Why these things are happened in life?
Because human being generally is self-fish, this is genesis of all the problems of mankind.


What is love
Many people have many views about love; members have talked about this confusing word "Love" in Cokoye here http://cokoye.com/love-relationship-romance-chat-room/ search different topics relating to love and join the discussions


What is cheating?
Cheating refers to an immoral way of achieving a goal. It is generally used for the breaking of rules to gain unfair advantage in a competitive situation


What is hurting?
Cause physical pain or injury to: "Ow! You're hurting me!"; "does acupuncture hurt?"

aww!!! great answer!! i like the way you clear all the points. thank you

have you ever fall in love??

I haven't fall in love, only think I have loved. But who knows I might fall in love with you one day

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These kinds of things (pains and cheating) happen often to guys who are faithful and selfishly stick to one girl that is why isn't wise to give too much in a relationship so that if it fails it won't hurt too much. Unless both of you are ready for marriage. Then, attention and focus on one should be done by all means.

yeah!! heart is like a child, never trust on it. dont know when if fall for you or else. but i am just hate peoples who cheats and lied!!

Quote from: loveymiller on 2013-04-12 09:44
....but i am just hate peoples who cheats and lied!!

Lovey, I havn't yet fall, I'm still standing

That is good!!! do not ever fell in love

Yeah, I prefer to love, not falling in love, becuase I might fall not stand up again

Quote from: Christian Okoye on 2013-04-13 08:28
Yeah, I prefer to love, not falling in love, becuase I might fall not stand up again

Yeah!!! But Love is like something which comes up almost everyone life's..

Yeah, that is true, Love comes up almost everyone life but falling for it is wrong word to use.
Loving is fine, but one doesn't have to fall in love, you get that? 

yep! I gotcha!!! 

You know lovey, I like it whenever you laugh . Falling, falling, falling in love, that is why whenever there is a problem or break up there is always serious emotional troubles and conflicts that make it hard to recover, because initially instead of loving their partner they went and fall.

Quote from: Christian Okoye on 2013-04-19 09:34
You know lovey, I like it whenever you laugh . Falling, falling, falling in love, that is why whenever there is a problem or break up there is always serious emotional troubles and conflicts that make it hard to recover, because initially instead of loving their partner they went and fall.

that is true, that is what all i want to say. that is why i am afraid of being in love with someone!! 

Being afraid based on experience or observation is a beginning of wisdom. Good news is that there is no need for boy friend other than husband let alone be haste at it. For what?

YES, YOU ARE RIGHT. THAT IS WHY I AM living all alone!!! no boyfriend at all now!!