A girl was dating a guy this guy care for her the way it ought to be (
buying, giving her gift, calling her, always per attention to her any time she needs).
The girl traveled to see her people in process someone approached her and told her about marriage. The girl return from her Trip stop visiting the initial guy, all attempt to get her explain what happened failed, it was latter he told a friend that she is now into SERIOUS relationship.

Ok, after 3 months the same girl want to return to this guy, by then this guy has started moving with another lovely and beautiful girl.
Why we don't know exactly what happened to her with the recent guy, is obvious she has been deceived, used and dumped.

Marriage within  two weeks?
WHY ARE MOST WOMEN EASILY DECEIVED?

I think the initial guy didn't define the relationship, here comes a man who defined the relationship, its just unfortunity it ended in a sad note.   

martina, I quite disagree with you, this incident is as a result of desperation and lack of direction.

it is obvious that the girl doesn't knw what she wants.  But how old is she? Maybe she is not mature to take decision and be able to differentiate between love and lust. 

Quote from: mikelwins on 2011-11-02 00:07
it is obvious that the girl doesn't knw what she wants.  But how old is she? Maybe she is not mature to take decision and be able to differentiate between love and lust. 

It doesn't really matter with her age. It's all about who she is and how she perceive the things of life

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it is obvious that the girl doesn't knw what she wants.   But how old is she? Maybe she is not mature to take decision and be able to differentiate between love and lust.   

It doesn't really matter with her age.  It's all about who she is and how she perceive the things of life

then go and date a girl below 18 years, if you think age has nothing to do with this.

Quote from: mikelwins on 2011-11-02 00:07
it is obvious that the girl doesn't knw what she wants.  But how old is she? Maybe she is not mature to take decision and be able to differentiate between love and lust. 

She is 21 years old, 200 level in high institution.
I guess is as a result of background training, greedy and the types of friends she keeps.

Then she is practically a lust! holy shit!

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it is obvious that the girl doesn't knw what she wants.   But how old is she? Maybe she is not mature to take decision and be able to differentiate between love and lust.   

It doesn't really matter with her age.  It's all about who she is and how she perceive the things of life

then go and date a girl below 18 years, if you think age has nothing to do with this.

mikelwins, are you against common saying "Catch them young"?

huh! Indeed catch them young and 'grind' or 'guide' them?

Quote from: mikelwins on 2011-11-02 22:15
huh! Indeed catch them young and 'grind' or 'guide' them?

Isn't my slogan.
But you seem like writing with experience, judging by your argument?

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huh! Indeed catch them young and 'grind' or 'guide' them?

Isn't my slogan.
But you seem like writing with experience, judging by your argument?

Yes, considering my age

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huh! Indeed catch them young and 'grind' or 'guide' them?

Isn't my slogan.
But you seem like writing with experience, judging by your argument?

Yes, considering my age

Ok, noted.

I think what happened here she is inexperience , she would have kept her man and follow the new one gradually at least for sometimes before moving away, with this she will make inform decision.
I'm not advocating for double dating,  but one needs to be wise as their is no grantee that this old guy will marry her.
So she has right motive but wrong move.