We have seen a situation where someone says no, after some persuasions in some cases threats, the person would say yes. My question is can love be forced on someone? Your opinion please.

There is no "force" in love whatsoever. You can force and try anything, but it won't truly happen unless it was meant to.  Love is something purely emotional, an unexplainable feeling towards someone that makes you truly happy. You can't force that. Love is something where it just "has to feel right."  Sure, I believe in "love at first sight", and I believe you can "accidentally fall in love."  This girl says she loves you, and at one point in your life, I guess maybe you can say you did too. Love isn't something that can be tossed around casually. It's something that needs to be held on to and cherished at any moment you can. You both obviously feel something for each other if you're both feeling this way. And especially if you've resorted to asking complete strangers online for their opinions. 

Having seen many child marriages (one might argue that such are forced), along the line you see them living happily (at least based on what they display outside)  one may be influenced to believe that Love can be forced.

Loving is like cooking. They both are neither conditional nor unconditional. Either you cook, or you don't. Either you love, or you don't. In both cases, you will lose energy as you carry out the action. Without the use of energy, you are believing that you are loving but you are not actually carrying out the action of loving.


Can you be forced to love, to cook? You must not know how to cook but you must know how to love. You should love humanity in general. Why should you not force yourself to love yourself and others, including your enemies, let alone those who are in a bad relationship with you? However, there must be a balance!


Love is not a feeling but a one-way action, which requires energy as discharged by the originator of love, done for the target of love, according to the book, THUMOS Adulthood, Love & Collaboration. Here is the kicker. Such discharge is impossible when targets of love do not share their ideals with the originator of love.


The balance is between sharing your love energy for your ideals and for those of others.

I believe that there is no way to force or somehow calculate it. Which is quite good I guess.

You can take the cow to the river but not force it to drink waterHow you interpret this is up to you!

Love can not be forced.  Love has to come naturally from the heart without being forced.

no never we can't get love forcefully from other's

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