Author Topic: How Do I Choose the Right Site For Me? (Read 5662 times)

Perfect · « **on:** »

With the explosion of online dating sites has come a virtual smorgasbord of choices. There are free sites… I don’t recommend those but if money is a real concern, they are better than nothing. There are the large paid sites with many and varied features like chat, IM and even matching using profiles. There are the less expensive paid sites with few features. There are special interest sites for almost any thing you can think of...outdoor enthusiasts, couch potatoes, religious, non-religious, gays, lesbians…like I said…almost anything you can think of. So what’s a girl to do? A girl should choose the site or sites that best fit her needs.

Here are some things to consider:

(1)   Cost. How much do you want or how much can you spend each month for your membership (s)?
(2)   Features. Which features are the most important to you?
(A)   Profile matching systems. Is this a feature you really want or would you rather decide who is right for you all by yourself?
(B)   Chat and IM’s? There are websites who offer chat rooms and IM’s on their sites. Does that matter or would you be happy just sticking to private email.
(C)   Outside Events…such as speed dating? Are you interested in that?
(D)   Privacy. Some websites allow you to limit who can view your picture or your profile. Does this matter to you or do you want as wide exposure as you can have?
(E)   Safety. There are websites who do background checks of all subscribers and certify their age, marital status and background. Would you feel safer using this feature?

These are a few things but not all things you should consider when choosing an online dating service or services. Do your homework and choose wisely for the best results for you.

Cokoye · « **on:** »

Webm · « **Reply #1 on:** »

Internet is making things to be really easier.
This tip is useful. thanks.

Cokoye · « **Reply #1 on:** »

Webm · « **Reply #2 on:** »

I doubt if is out of turn to start with the free one(s) to test the water first.

Cokoye · « **Reply #2 on:** »

Perfect · « **Reply #3 on:** »

Free one is ok as you said to test the water, more likely that paid ones attract serious fellows, not spammers and scammers.

BiGxGh.Com™ · « **Reply #4 on:** »

Honestly, i feel like anybody that seeks for women online is a loser. If you cant man up to talk to girls in real life you just have to work on your self confidence, hiding behind your computer screen doesnt make you a man ... my 2 cents

Cokoye · « **Reply #4 on:** »

Perfect · « **Reply #5 on:** »

Quote from: BiGxGh.Com™ on

Honestly, i feel like anybody that seeks for women online is a loser. If you cant man up to talk to girls in real life you just have to work on your self confidence, hiding behind your computer screen doesnt make you a man ... my 2 cents

Well, there may be such in the line, but realistically, there is so many reasons people prefer to go online such as Time, distance, common interest, faster etc.
Time: Most people don't have time to be going from pillar to post in search of partner (besides isn't decent way to use one's time)
Distance: One could be in one part of country or location and found his or her love in the other side.
Common interest: Whenever you join dating site you have a reason to do so which is the same reason people you meet there have. You don't have to be beating around the bush.
Faster: With online you can approach multiple people at once. (Although I don't recommend this)
These I listed above is to serve as reality not totality of advantages of online dating site.

Prince james C. Inyogu · « **Reply #6 on:** »

i thing nigerians like free stuff and they will go for it.

Perfect · « **Reply #7 on:** »

Holyguy your location shows you are from Nigeria, which do you prefer, Free or Paid?

enomakos · « **Reply #8 on:** »

Quote from: Perfect on

Quote from: BiGxGh.Com™ on
Honestly, i feel like anybody that seeks for women online is a loser. If you cant man up to talk to girls in real life you just have to work on your self confidence, hiding behind your computer screen doesnt make you a man ... my 2 cents

Well, there may be such in the line, but realistically, there is so many reasons people prefer to go online such as Time, distance, common interest, faster etc.
Time: Most people don't have time to be going from pillar to post in search of partner (besides isn't decent way to use one's time)
Distance: One could be in one part of country or location and found his or her love in the other side.
Common interest: Whenever you join dating site you have a reason to do so which is the same reason people you meet there have. You don't have to be beating around the bush.
Faster: With online you can approach multiple people at once. (Although I don't recommend this)
These I listed above is to serve as reality not totality of advantages of online dating site.

i agree

Perfect · « **Reply #9 on:** »

enomakos, Which one in Particular do you agree with?

enomakos · « **Reply #10 on:** »

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enomakos, Which one in Particular do you agree with?

i mean i agree with your point

Perfect · « **Reply #11 on:** »

Ok noted, I was a bit unsure by you quoting the two at once.

Prince james C. Inyogu · « **Reply #12 on:** »

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Holyguy your location shows you are from Nigeria, which do you prefer, Free or Paid?

I will go for for free stuff now that am still dependent.

Perfect · « **Reply #13 on:** »

Well, you case is rightly understood.

fkbook · « **Reply #14 on:** »

I own a adult Sa dating site fkbook. co. za but all the women on there are looking for affairs is this normal in south africa

Cokoye · « **Reply #14 on:** »

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