Author Topic: Online Dating For the Single 30 Something Woman (Read 6511 times)

Perfect · « **on:** »

Life isn’t fair. Men get all the breaks. You’ve devoted all of your 20’s to getting your career off the ground. Not that you haven’t been dating…you have, but not seriously. Now here you are…30 something and there is no long term relationship in sight. You can actually hear your biological clock ticking. You have a precious few years to find a man to fall in love with, make him fall in love with you, get married, and have a baby or its lights out. You already know all of the men in your social circle. Not that they aren’t nice guys…some of them…but none of them are your soul mate. What’s a girl to do?

Consider online dating. You have the opportunity to read hundreds of profiles and look at hundreds of pictures in search of that “someone” that will be right for you. Maybe he will live in the same city you do…maybe he will live across the country or even in another country altogether. You aren’t limited to only those men that you come in contact with personally. The possibilities are almost endless.

“Is online dating safe”, you ask. “Aren’t the online dating sites made up entirely of perverts, sexual predators and weirdoes in assorted shapes and sizes?” the answer is, no they aren’t. Not anymore anyway. That was true when online dating first came on the scene but now it is mainstream. It’s as safe as you make it using common sense and sound judgment. Use the same caution that you would when meeting any stranger. Don’t give your real name, address or phone number until you feel safe doing so. Don’t rush into a face-to-face meeting until you are confident and then make the first meeting in a public place and during daylight hours. Give it a try…Mr. Right might be a few mouse clicks away.

Cokoye · « **on:** »

Webm · « **Reply #1 on:** »

Pefect,This is really wonderful tips

Cokoye · « **Reply #1 on:** »

Kodo · « **Reply #2 on:** »

Online Dating has many advantages.

Cokoye · « **Reply #2 on:** »

chidon20 · « **Reply #3 on:** »

Online dating is cool but one must be careful.

Perfect · « **Reply #4 on:** »

Quote from: chidon20 on

Online dating is cool but one must be careful.

Chidon, just like any other activities of live, is not limited to online.

Cokoye · « **Reply #4 on:** »

rdesza · « **Reply #5 on:** »

Perfect · « **Reply #6 on:** »

rdesza why winking? are you male or female?

enomakos · « **Reply #7 on:** »

online dating is cool

chichi · « **Reply #8 on:** »

:-*i believe people should be careful

which website can i go to date online

Perfect · « **Reply #9 on:** »

Chichi africatopforum has DATE for SINGLES and FLIRTERS BOARD you can post your pictures http://cokoye.com/index.php?board=49.0 You must make at least 40 posts before any link or pictures will appear.

martina · « **Reply #10 on:** »

This is a good post you really made a point.
online dating seems to be way to go this days, at least you choose who to communicate with or ignore.

Webm · « **Reply #11 on:** »

Online dating is gathering momentum yearly. As many youths go online to date and chat only.

Dqueen · « **Reply #12 on:** »

interesting post about the benefits and risks of online dating there Perfect. but, and as usual, I can't leave it without questions. so I'm just wondering how you will be judged, according to our African culture, by your family or relatives if you told them that you found your husband or wife on the internet?

Perfect · « **Reply #13 on:** »

I like the way you ask question as it's brings engagement in thread.

To your question, no matter how you're being judged important thing is your relation with your partner and future. However, no body asks how you and your met, I haven't notice this as parent or relatives concern.

Africanshop · « **Reply #14 on:** »

So many Nigerians home and abroad are scared of online dating. I know quite a few people who have found love online. Sometimes, we wait for love to come and find us. It works for some and it doesn't work for others. So, why not try something new- who knows, it might work out for you too. Here's an article that will help you in your search for love online:

WHY MORE AFRICANS IN DIASPORA SHOULD TRY ONLINE AFRICAN DATING WEBSITES
We all know at least one African person that is single and they are either looking for a wife or husband (maybe both, just kidding). You also have probably heard them say there are no good African women or men abroad anymore. That they have all become Americanized and they would rather go back home and find someone (as if that doesn’t have its own problems)....

Until you can say you have devoted enough time to looking for a partner and stepping out of your comfort zone I don’t want to hear there are no good African men and women abroad. With that being said here are 10 online dating sites, some are exclusively for Africans while others are geared towards African Americans.

10 online African Dating Websites

1. Afrointroductions boasts of thousands of members and over 20 million connections in the Cupid Media network. It enables its members to use functions...

https://shikenan.com/article-details/1/110/1/Why-more-Africans-in-Diaspora-should-try-Online-African-Dating-Websites

It's quite easy to find love but all you need to do is to do it wisely.

Cokoye · « **Reply #14 on:** »

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