Many people have offered various reasons why wives often do not feel sexy. Some women are simply turned off by their husband's ignorance of fore play before sex and over possessiveness on their part.
It has been advised by various relationship experts that women need to be stimulated mentally prior to having sex.
For some women spending time with a man when there is no sex makes them feel more loved. Ironically for a man spending time with a woman that does not want to have sex with him makes him feel less loved or desired. But in general term, sex can be a unifying factor between a man and a woman. Sex and love can be mutually exclusive while being single, but in a marriage, sex is an expression of love through physical intimacy. A wife who wears sexy under wear to bed, spontaneously perform oral sex, join him in the shower, or teases makes a husband feel irresistible.
Even if a woman cooks, cleans the house, does the laundry and takes care of the family budgets, but does not have sex with her husband, he will not feel loved. After all he can do all these things for himself.
Men love the softness of woman's body pressed against theirs, wet kisses, and eyes, even snuggling while watching television. When a husband feels sexually desired by his wife he feels loved.
A clean house may be a turn on for both the wife and husband while being stroked may be a turn on for the husband. In effect, you have a wife cleaning a house and the husband rubbing his wife's behind.
Essentially both are doing what they wish the other person were doing. But most likely both the man and the woman are doing many of the same things they did in the beginning of the relationship. But as time went by things became different. They begin to take each other for granted. It is as though the price has gone up or more is now required in order to get the same thing which were offered freely initially.
There is this famous saying that "men marry women hoping they will never change and women marry men hoping they will change. It is generally believed that men tend to have higher sex drives than women.
Some of the factors that play major part in a woman's diminished sex drive are hormones and menopause. There are some women who have never had organisms and do not get much enjoyment out of sex. But this is an exception.
It’s a sad fact that less than 1% of men know how to really SATISFY their women in the bedroom. And the thing is… when the sex is great, it takes care of 90% of everything else. Show me a man and a woman who are having great sex on a regular basis and I’ll more than likely show you a happy relationship.
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