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Why you must avoid women,if you want to be successful in life
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I wrote this chapter to let some guys who are yet to realize that the primary reasons militating against their progress in life are their devotion to women's business.

I observed that for a while that I am not in any relationship, I have made a lot of progress in the area of saving money & even in all aspects of life because I know how much I was spending to maintain my pretty ex-girlfriend to keep her & ensured she was not snatch by other men, which eventually happened.

I keep wondering of how I have rest of mind and save more after being relieved from a relationship with only one girlfriend, what could be about the lives of guys who have various girlfriends & bash around, spending on hotel bills, service payment, phones, clothes & other needs for those ladies.
I doubt if they will ever progress in life because these monies being spent on series of ladies can be accumulates into millions which could have transformed the lives of these guys.

Sometimes,when we complain about the irresponsibility of our leaders & governments, we somehow fail to acknowledge the fact that, we are responsible for our financial progress.

 Having a girlfriend is not a problem,but the problem is that,the 21st century environment has made relationship a transaction, that a relationship is now an investment without returns & you keep spending because you don't want to lose the investment & even go as far as borrowing or committing a crime to please a woman or your sexual urge, except one is lucky to have the responsible ones who are devoted to the relationship rather than view it as a means of surviving.

I thought I could not survive without a girlfriend, but I have been able too, and I have recorded huge progress in my life, which I could not have achieved if I still had my ex-girlfriend in my life.

My point is this,guys who are yet to marry should take advantage of their singleness to hustle in stabilizing their life.

No matter how small you are earning,if you can apply common sense to it, it will make a huge impact in your life rather than spending on pleasure and sleeping around with women.

And lastly, always have this in mind,
1?Fornication take away glory.
2? Fornication is the instrument the devil always use to pull men down.
3? Fornication has to do with passing of problems to once life,if you sleep with one person today, just know that you have share 50% of her problems to your life.
Forget the fact that you always use condom,condom can only protect not to receive physical disease but there is no way you can protect spiritual disease that will wipe away your glory and add to your problem except you stay away from sex.

Now calculate the numbers of girls you have slept with and you will know your answer.that is the reason why most guys don't go forward, that is the reason why prayer of some guys is not yet answered.

"As a guy,if you can stop spending lavishly and go away from fornication,the good news is that half of what is holding your prosperity are gone."

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"Unmarried sex weakling destiny and create potential for destruction.
It makes many men never breakthrough and some that have broken through,it brings them down."
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Thanks for reading....


Your Relationship Gist Coach
Samson  Ishola