The greatest gift God gave a man is not his manhood but his ears. Women get perfect satisfaction from a husband that listens more to her than a husband that sleeps with her. Women are so complex; it is only listening to them and "learning" them that you can please them and live with them without quarreling and fighting. A husband may shower all manner of gifts on his wife but if he does not consciously listen to her then she will share his gift with a guy that listens to her. No wonder the bible admonished men to live with a woman with knowledge not with sex.1st Peter 3:7.RECEIVE THE WISDOM AND PATIENCE REQUIRED TO UNDERSTAND YOUR WIFE.