YOU ARE NOT A SUCCESS UNTIL YOU HAVE ENEMIES. ENEMIES INDIRECTLY HELP YOU THINKING THAT THEY ARE HURTING YOU. THE DEVIL HELPED JESUS TO THE CROSS. JOSEPH'S BROTHERS HELPED JOSEPH TO HIS THRONE, GOLIATH HELPED DAVID TO FAME. THAT ENEMY IS HELPING YOU. LOOK BEYOND THE HURT THERE IS GAIN IN THAT PAIN. THE PAIN BUILD ANGER BUT THE GAIN WILL BRING JOY THAT WILL HELP YOU DEFEAT THE ENEMY.