Author Topic: WHY IS IT THAT MAJORITY OF PEOPLE THINK NEGATIVELY AND COMPLAIN? (Read 14262 times)

Perfect · « **on:** »

I have observed around organizations I have been, schools, and listening to radio and TV stations , so many people think negatively and complain Why?

Cokoye · « **on:** »

Perfect · « **Reply #1 on:** »

I like listening to talk radio stations and TV talk show, in very interesting topic where you expect important and educative talks, people normally call and start complaining about government, leaders, senior, men/Female depends on the subject of the matter.
What is really going on? many times I found it difficult to watch TV or listening to Radio.

Cokoye · « **Reply #1 on:** »

Mature · « **Reply #2 on:** »

Thinking negatively is as a result of many factors. Eg Child upbringing, environment, companies one keeps around and what one exposes to.
To further explain:
Child upbringing: If parent condemn child all the times when that child becomes adult he or she tends to think negatively as such always see reason to complain than provide solution
Environment: Input in environment determines out put, certain environment where negative activities take tend to affect one's psyche Eg Poverty, atrocities, violent etc.
Companies one keeps: keeping and moving with negative and unproductive people will force you to gradually becoming like them. It just a mater of time.
What one expose to: Words you're expose to like listening and getting involve in certain people will subconsciously becomes part of you, before you know it, you will see yourself exhibiting such thing(s).

Cokoye · « **Reply #2 on:** »

Perfect · « **Reply #3 on:** »

Mature, welcome on board, thank you for your input, you list of the causes are in point, I wonder too if people realize the negative implications of this?.

Cokoye · « **Reply #3 on:** »

kiarajeckson · « **Reply #4 on:** »

The negativity and complains all the feeling mainly arises due to surroundings..what the behavior of all the close ones it is the most important thing to create negativity in the mind...one more thing which also causes problems are the social issues like poverty,corruption etc..Which gives a negative impact to the human mentality.

Cokoye · « **Reply #4 on:** »

w3origin · « **Reply #5 on:** »

This is called human behavior, its the tendency of our behaviors that we catch the negative things first in comparison of positive things.

Cokoye · « **Reply #5 on:** »

kiarajeckson · « **Reply #6 on:** »

Ya you are right..It's a human tendency that he catches bad things faster than the good things and then he try to adopt them in his life..

Cokoye · « **Reply #6 on:** »

Webm · « **Reply #7 on:** »

Yes I agree with you guys, that is true, I see this virtually every where, tribes, colors, countries, in short it has no boundary. What is possible solution to curb this?

Cokoye · « **Reply #7 on:** »

kiarajeckson · « **Reply #8 on:** »

The best solution for this Is to adding these social issues in the child education So that from the starting the children would understand the consequences and try to do some positive efforts.

Perfect · « **Reply #9 on:** »

kiarajeckson, I agree with you that earlier education(Child education) is important as this is the bedrock for good future, but if parent fails to educate their child or educate us when we're kids, does this means that we must continue this attitude which isn't adding anything positive to our life?

Cokoye · « **Reply #9 on:** »

Mature · « **Reply #10 on:** »

One thing we should note is that Negative attitudes and complaining habits have passed ages, do we in this current dispensation havw the ability to eradicate or stop it?

Cokoye · « **Reply #10 on:** »

Mature · « **Reply #11 on:** »

What I know as a person and come to belief is that life is better when we think positively. No matter the challenge we are currently facing, I never seen any problem solved by thinking negatively. Hard thing to do though.

Cokoye · « **Reply #11 on:** »

Perfect · « **Reply #12 on:** »

Yes, life is better when we think positively, that is why I found it difficult to understand why do people like doing somany negative things, having known that the actions help nobody. Even themselves. What is going on?

Cokoye · « **Reply #12 on:** »

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